Right before we were kicked out
This reminds me of a kiss I had in a park once.
Miss you.
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Playing with the Kinky Librarian
Nadia West, the Kinky Librarian, has been in town for the past few days. Tonight she came over to hang out with us for a while and have Alec shoot some pictures of her. We had a fun time and I enjoyed getting to participate in the photo shoot with her.
What? Don't all bloggers have pillow fights when they meet up?
It's all fun and games until someone's nightgown starts to slip...
It’s been great getting to hang out with Nadia these past couple of days. I look forward to Saturday night when we’ll get together with Nadia, Scarlet Lotus, Onyx, Kyle, and Roxy for dinner. Should be a great night!
Come on
In the shower, an errant drop of conditioner on my breast transported my thoughts back to an evening in the past, an evening when Alec’s cum dripped from my breasts. What led up to that point, I do not remember. I do, however, know I asked for it and waited expectantly for my request to be granted. When it was, I grinned like a child on Christmas morning.
I wasn’t always a fan of being cum upon. I can see now that my opinion of this activity was colored by my perception of guys coming on girls in porn and probably by the type of porn where I saw this happen. To me it seemed expected. The scenes I saw appeared very contrived (as I’m sure most porn is) and to be following a formula: girl sucks guy’s dick, they fuck for a while, and then he unceremoniously comes on her face, breasts, etc. while the girl looks on with an expression of either boredom or “hurry up and get this over with.” None of that excited me in the least. In fact, it almost pissed me off. I could not imagine wanting a man to come on me. However, it seems that when I form an opinion about something that I WILL NOT DO EVER, I am, at some point, faced with a situation that challenges my thinking. What changed my mind? Reading about and seeing porn clips where women actually *gasp* enjoyed having someone come on them. When I witnessed someone that experienced pleasure from having a load of cum shots across her breasts, I had my eyes opened to the possibility that maybe I, too, would enjoy that.
Then came the hard (for me) part: convincing my husband that I actually wanted him to come on me. After years of having sex and never engaging in this activity and hearing my disdain for the contrived facial and breast cum shots in porn, how was I going to persuade Alec that I now wanted him to come on me? My memory is a bit hazy but I believe that I found a video clip that I found appealing, showed it to him, and commented, “I want to do that.” Being the pleaser that he is, Alec obliged me (the convincing part was *way* easier than I imagined). I think the first time was a bit awkward. Perhaps he was wondering if I truly believed this was hot. Maybe he wasn’t totally into it. Either way, he gave me what I asked for and I loved it. I believe that my appreciation for his cooperation showed through because he was willing to grant me repeat performances. Lucky me!
Having Alec come on me isn’t something we do often, but when it is incorporated into our play, I find it amazingly hot. I’m glad that I am open to changing my opinions and beliefs about things. Allowing my attitudes to shift and not stubbornly holding onto the “way I’ve always done it” has opened some seriously sexy doors for me.
Photos via aheadwithwings tumblr
We’re in a book!
I’m so excited to announce that a photo Alec took of me as well as a quote from my blog has been included in a book! The book is called We Feel Fine: An Almanac of Human Emotion. The mission of the project (which resulted in the making of the book) is quite interesting:
We Feel Fine is an exploration of human emotion on a global scale.
Since August 2005, We Feel Fine has been harvesting human feelings from a large number of weblogs. Every few minutes, the system searches the world’s newly posted blog entries for occurrences of the phrases “I feel” and “I am feeling”. When it finds such a phrase, it records the full sentence, up to the period, and identifies the “feeling” expressed in that sentence (e.g. sad, happy, depressed, etc.). Because blogs are structured in largely standard ways, the age, gender, and geographical location of the author can often be extracted and saved along with the sentence, as can the local weather conditions at the time the sentence was written. All of this information is saved.
The result is a database of several million human feelings, increasing by 15,000 – 20,000 new feelings per day. Using a series of playful interfaces, the feelings can be searched and sorted across a number of demographic slices, offering responses to specific questions like: do Europeans feel sad more often than Americans? Do women feel fat more often than men? Does rainy weather affect how we feel? What are the most representative feelings of female New Yorkers in their 20s? What do people feel right now in Baghdad? What were people feeling on Valentine’s Day? Which are the happiest cities in the world? The saddest? And so on.
I was contacted a number of months ago and asked for permission to have my quote and a picture from the blog included in the book. Of course I said yes! What a fun opportunity. While perusing the preview pages online a few weeks ago, I noticed a familiar picture. It turns out that our sex blogging friends Mina and Sylvanus (from At Longing’s End) are also included in We Feel Fine. I found it amusing that I was able to recognize Mina’s ass (and Sylvanus’ photographic style) in a sea of other pictures.
This is what the page looks like that our picture is on:
Thanks for letting me share my excitement about this book with you! I can’t wait to get my copy in the mail.
Happy birthday, Alec!
I wanted to come here to publicly wish my amazing husband a very happy birthday. Not only is he a fantastic husband and father but an amazing photographer and webmaster as well. This website would not exist were it not for his hard work. So, happy birthday, my sweet Alec. I love you!
P.S.
DO NOT miss HNT tonight! We’re going to be featuring a very special, very sexy guest.
Feeling frisky on Friday
What do you get when you taunt your working husband with the knowledge that you’re going grocery shopping, in a skirt, with no panties and sporting an Njoy Pure Plug in your ass? Well, in my house this kind of behavior gets your skirt pulled up, your ass spanked, and your pussy fucked. It also gets you an order not to leave the bedroom until you have an orgasm. And have an orgasm I did! Thanks to my trusty rabbit and a little help from Alec and the Pure Plug. Hey, if this is how each grocery shopping trip is going to end, I might have to shop like this more often.
I hope your Friday is going as well as mine is!