TMI Tuesday #160

1. Ever been skinny dipping?  Yes.  A few times when I was a teenager.  As an adult, in the hot tub at our last house.

2. How often do you kiss or make out without it simply being a foreplay activity?  I kiss Alec every opportunity I get.  But making out?  Almost always leads to something more.  So it’s not often that we make out and leave it at that.

3. On a scale of 1-10, how content are you with your life? (1 is lowest, 10 is highest) Do you think ‘content’ and ‘happy’ the same thing?  I would say I’m at an 8.  There are a few things going on in my life now that are not to my liking.  But I’m working on them and trying not to let the bad parts out weigh the good things.  I do not think being happy and being content are the same thing.  I think you can be content with your life without necessarily being happy.

4. What do you do to relieve stress?  Have sex, drink, go out with friends, veg in front of the TV.

5. What was the special trait in your first lover that made you decide that they were “the one?”  I don’t think I ever thought of my first lover as “the one.”  I decided to have sex with him simply to get the first time out of the way (romantic, no?).  Though Alec wasn’t my first, I knew he was “the one” because I couldn’t bear to be away from him.  I wanted to spend every moment with him.  That feeling hasn’t lessened over the 15 years we’ve been together. 

Bonus: How old were you when you first had sex? (positive experiences here…)  I was 15.  It was ridiculous.  I distinctly remember thinking, “If this is sex, I’m not impressed.”