By Coy Pink

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #154? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
For tonight, we’ll forget who and what we are.

“I want to play with you all night.”

Please, please don’t
“It will hurt, but it will be fine”

Rough
“I want you on top of me.”

Sugasm Editor
Radical Vixen

Editor’s Choice

Sometimes You Find You Get What You Need

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See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Are You a Penis Person? [podcasturbation]

Ask Miss Bliss: Bi and Tired of Being Pressured Into Threesomes
College Confessional: The Naked Truth About Male Bonding
eHarmony: The Battle for Gay Rights in a Nutshell
Kinky vs. Queer vs. Straight Sex
L-O-V-E (the other L Word)
Porn People I Want To Hang Out With
Tie Me to the Ends of Love, Part 1
Wood and lace?

Sex Work

All School and No Kink make Princess a Bitch
Sex Worker Solidarity: Craig Seymour

BDSM & Fetish
At his house
Captured at Folsom.
Christmas came early…or late
Deprived, depraved, fucked and satisfied

Paula’s Story [Part Five]
Sex Camp 2008: Wherein I learn fishnets chafe
A Testament To Douchebaggery

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Catsuit
Femme Fatale
Iga A (Met Art)

Natali Demore tying Vivian Ireene Pierce Preview
Picture 47: the pet
Sandra Shine and Judy Nero
Silky
Sybil hawthorne trying on a ballgag

Sex Advice
Hot and Handy: Giving The Perfect Penis Handjob
How to Have a One-Night Stand

Erotic Writing and Experiences

Airport Conversations
The Back Wank
Cleo and Lisa
Commando
I want more
Lucid Dreams
My strippers are spying on me
Painting the Picture
So, about Monday night …

Tasting The Sun Flower
Twenty Four Hours
When Nerd Night gets nasty
Wrestling With Eric
Z Part 2 – Blade

Sex Humor
Blast From the Past. Confession #178

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews

404 File Not Found… It’s Not Here, But Angela Is
The Cuckold – Cumming to DVD
NYC Sex Bloggers Calendar Party Post Roundup
Porn 4 Pussies: Crash Pad Series, Volume 1
Sex Toy Review: Lelo Mia
Sex Toy Review – The Zone

Today is my birthday so instead of toiling over taking pictures tonight, I’m going to use one taken a while ago and go have sex with my husband instead. 

I hope you all (those of you in the U.S., that is) have a wonderful Thanksgiving.  I have more blessings than I can count and am thankful each day for my wonderful life.  Happy Half-Nekkid Thursday!

1. What is your favorite Thanksgiving food? Stuffing!  I like the dangerous kind that’s cooked inside the turkey.
2. You can flip a switch that will wipe any band or musical artist out of existence. Which one will it be? Wow.  This is a tough one.  I was going to say Poison but they’ve passed their prime and are fading away quite nicely on their own.  So who will be?  Maybe Barry Manilow.  He just came out with a new monstrosity of an album, The Greatest Hits of the Eighties (covers of others’ songs).  Truly awful.  Great.  Now I have Copa Cabana stuck in my head.
3. You seem to be having an excellent day because you just came across a hundred-dollar bill on the sidewalk. Holy crap, a hundred bucks! How are you gonna spend it? More knee socks, coffee, and dinner out.
4. What is your favorite curse word? I’ll probably have to go with ‘fuck’.  But since I have kids and choose not to swear around them, my favorite replacement swear word is ‘crap’.
5. Rufus appears out of nowhere with a time-traveling phone booth. You can go anytime in the PAST. What time are you traveling to and what are you going to do when you get there? I would go back to see my aunt who has passed away.  I’d make sure to let her know just how special she was to me.  (Do we get bonus points for this question if we actually know who Rufus is?)
Bonus (as in optional):  You accidentally eat some radioactive vegetables. They were good, and what’s even cooler is that they endow you with the super-power of your choice! What’s it gonna be? Super strength.  I could help people and get quite a bit done around my own house!

Sometimes I yearn to strip our sex down to the bare bones.  All I need is the basics:  his naked body on my naked body.  No toys, no porn, no extra play.  Just him.  Just me.

Foreplay is short.  I’m wet just from the mere proximity to him.  A few hurried kisses and then he’s on me.  He enters me effortlessly and knows exactly what to do.  Though we’ve done this a thousand times, this night is no less exciting.  We’re feeding off each other’s excitement.  I know he’s close to orgasm, he knows I’m close.  He stops for a moment to prolong our ecstasy.  I’m dying to come but also not wanting this moment to end.  I love feeling the weight of him on me.  Nothing feels more right to me than this simple act.  He is inside of me, I look up at him, and all is right with the world.  It’s cliche, I know, but he plays me like an instrument.  He knows how much, when, and where to thrust to drive me absolutely insane with desire and lust.

We continue this dance a while longer.  Hovering at the edge of release, lost in each other.  But then I can no longer stand the wait.  He tries to slow down, pulling back a bit so he can postpone the inevitable.  I won’t let him stop.  I push my hips up to meet him, begging with my body for him to stay close.  He comes and then seconds later I am coming, crushing myself towards him.  There is something magical about coming at the same time.  I am rocked once again with the reminder that I can come so hard from “plain old” missionary sex.  With nothing more than his body he manages to make the ordinary anything but.

A couple of weeks ago I drug a friend of mine to the local Lovers store to browse a bit.  I usually prefer to buy my toys online because I can often find what I want for a better price than in the store.  However, I also possess poor impulse control and feel the need to “buy now!” if I see something that catches my eye.  Such was the case with the Gemini.

The Fusion Edition Gemini is made by Evolved Novelties.  The packaging is eye-catching.  Each toy comes in its own tin box.  I’m a girly girl and am a sucker for pretty things.  Lovers had a Gemini out on their display table so I was able to hold it and check it out before I decided to buy it.  This is a double ended vibrator with separate controls for each end.  It’s like two toys in one – score!  The Gemini is controlled by two buttons, one for each end.  You simply push the button to turn it on, cycle through the settings, and continue pressing to turn it off.  Each end has three settings.

The long end has graduated bumps and a curved end.  Great for g-spot stimulation but also good for clitoral stimulation.  The vibration choices on this end are low, medium, high.

The short end (which houses the controls) has a typical rounded vibrator shape.  This end can be inserted (though there’s less insertable length on this end as opposed to the other) as well as used externally.  Vibrations on this end are more pulse-like.  Choices include a double pulse, two short pulses followed by a third longer pulse, and then a gradually building pulse.  When I have mine set on the last selection (gradual build up) it makes a cool high-tech noise.  Freaked me out at first but now I like it.

This has become a favorite vibrator of mine for a number of reasons.  I love the silky smooth feel of the outside (phthalate-free, thank you very much), the color is beautiful, the controls are simple, it’s waterproof, and most importantly, it gets me off!  The first time I used it, I cranked the bumpy end up to high and worked on my g-spot.  This felt wonderful in concert with Alec rubbing my clit and sucking on my nipples.  The next time I used it, I focused the rounded end on my clit.  I used the gradually increasing pulse setting and oh my goodness, it was heavenly!  Sometimes I have a hard time working up to an orgasm with a pulse setting like that but this was different.  The pulse is quite strong.  I enjoyed the build up and I was able to keep the vibrator on my clit even after I came, riding the wave of the pulses.  This is a great toy for the girl who can’t make up her mind or is easily bored.  Something not working for you?  Change up the setting, flip the Gemini over!  No need to dig around for another toy, you’ve already got two in your hand.

The only thing I wasn’t thrilled with in regards to this toy is the fact that it takes four AAA batteries.  We don’t often have AAA batteries around here but I’ll be sure to stock up now!

I was quite impressed with this toy and hope to try something else from Evolved Novelties soon.  In the meantime, I’m sure I’ll be busy breaking my new Gemini in.

We’re always (or almost always) scrambling at the last minute to try to figure out what to do for Half-Nekkid Thursday.  Leave it to Alec (who doesn’t consider himself creative – ha!) to pull a cool idea out of thin air.

When picking a new toy, choose wisely!  Thanks to Mollena for tipping me off (via Twitter) to this hilarious video.