* Link to your tagger and list these rules on your blog.
* Share 7 facts about yourself on your blog – some random, some weird.
* Tag 7 people at the end of your post by leaving their names as well as links to their blog.
* Let them know they have been tagged by leaving a comment on their blog.
1. I have a strong dislike/fear of bathrooms with small turquoise/aquamarine and white tiles. I have no idea why.
2. I love having my girls sleep in my room. I realize this isn’t weird to everyone but most people who hear that my 6 year old and 2 1/2 year old sleep in my room/bed look at me like I have three heads. Personally, I think there’s nothing better than waking up to two happy, beautiful, funny girls in the morning.
3. I CANNOT have a straw that’s in a drink pointing towards my eye. Alec thinks this is hilarious. I think I’m saving myself from needless eye injuries.
4. My silly daily indulgence: Perez Hilton.
5. I have breastfed for a total (between my two kids) of 51 months so far.
6. I met Alec through a local dial-up BBS back in the day.
7. I climbed the Nohoch Mul pyramid in Mexico. I think that day was quite possibly the hottest day I have ever experienced. The climb up wasn’t nearly as scary as the climb down. The view from the top was magnificent.
Now, I know I’m supposed to tag seven more people but I think by now, most bloggers I “know” have either been tagged or have completed the meme. I’ll do my best to scrounge up a few people to tag.
Lucy from Lucy’s Place – my sweet friend from down under, won’t you please accept this tag to join in the fun? Beau from The Beau Kind – please do me the honor of participating in this game. I always enjoy learning more about you. Osbasso from Views From the Back Row – do you have room for another meme on your practically meme-free site? Rapunzel (or Blue Ridge Mariposa, as some of you know her) from Rapunzel’s Musings – this meme isn’t as exciting as your recent exploits but perhaps you need a break from all that steamy sex writing. Selene from My Unspoken Truth – want to play with us?
Posted in Alec, pictures, sex | October 19th, 2008 by Coy Pink
Here are the last two shots that I’ll be sharing from the series of photos Alec shot with me, him, and some cute knee socks. These are more explicit pictures so pass over this post if that’s not what you’re looking for.
Posted in Uncategorized | October 18th, 2008 by Coy Pink
While out at the bar last night, I was introduced to a new liquor - X-Rated Fusion Liqueur. Per the website, this alcohol is “a sensuous blend of ultra-premium French vodka and rich blood oranges, mingling with mangos and passion fruit.” It’s delicious and look at that! It’s pink. This was my drink of choice last night: X-Rated over ice with soda water. So yummy and my favorite color to boot! I think I’ll be making a trip to the liquor store this week to pick up some X-Rated.
ETA: Alec brought me home a bottle of X-Rated on Monday. What an angel he is!
You all ready to get your weekends started? I sure am! I’ll be hitting the bar with some friends tonight and I’m really looking forward to it. I don’t go out often and I’m certainly feeling ready to kick back for a bit. If I get enough drinks in me there’s a chance I might be convinced to do some karaoke. I know my friends will love me no matter how terrible I might sound and I don’t really care what the strangers think of me so there should be nothing holding me back, right? We shall see!
I have a rain check from Alec for sex that I’ll be cashing in (at least once) this weekend. I won a We-Vibe from a contest on Lilly’s site and it arrived the other day. Alec and I decided to give it a trial run last night. I’m willing to give the vibe a second chance but last night, neither of us were impressed with its performance. It kept sliding around as he moved in and out. I wanted to focus on enjoying myself, not trying to position the vibe in the best spot. Alec also wasn’t enjoying the vibrations all that much. The lower vibration setting could potentially be better for him but I doubt it would do much for me. Lilly says that she likes to wear hers out and about for a slow tease. Perhaps I’ll give that a try. The We-Vibe looks like a cool toy. It’s rechargeable and made of silicone – two pluses in my book. The idea is quite unique and I want to love the We-Vibe. I’ll be giving it a second and third try to see if we can find a fun use for it. I’ll report back if we discover a good trick.
There are a couple of other items that we’ve purchased that I thought I’d mention my thoughts about. First off is the bondage tape. I really wanted to love this but the roll we got was extremely hard to work with. It was not easy to unroll and it quickly angered the normally even tempered Alec. It’s a shame that it isn’t easier to manage because we bought it in a lovely shade of pink that I’m quite fond of. The next bondage item we purchase will be more durable and easy to use, that’s for certain.
The other toy we got recently was the short rubber whip (flogger). We’ve only used this a time or two but I like it. The sting it delivers is good and not too overwhelming. The size of this item is fairly compact. It would be a good toy to tuck into a bag or take along to a play party if you were short on space. I haven’t tried any other floggers (we’re new to the S and M play) but I think it’s a good toy for the money. I’m looking forward to a night when we can play with this flogger and take some pictures of the marks it leaves. Be assured that I’ll share those photos.
The other night, after a rough day, Alec and settled in to watch a movie after a few drinks (him) and a Vicodin (me). Alec had been fingering and caressing me for a good amount of time while we watched the movie. When it was over, we decided to watch a little Abby Winters and continue the play. Towards the end I was sitting in a chair with a vibrator on my clit. He was standing next to me, letting me suck on his dick as he worked his magic on me with his fingers. If you’ll recall, my last experience with Vicodin and sex resulted in me being pretty frustrated. This night was seeming to head down the same path. I was thoroughly enjoying myself and feeling very close to coming but it was taking a long time to get there. As I sucked on Alec, I could feel him getting closer to coming. This only served to inflame me and in no time I was coming. And then apparently… squirting*. For the first time. I could feel the liquid pouring out of me but I was still pretty buzzed from the Vicodin and focused on making Alec come so I didn’t stop to ask, “WTF just happened?” Not much later, with me squirming under his hand and moaning contentedly, Alec came. I happily swallowed, relishing each pulse of his orgasm. As soon as he started to come down off his post-orgasm high, he asked me what happened. I’m disappointed to say that I was so caught up in the moment that I had no idea I was going to squirt until it was already happening. However it happened, Alec was one happy guy. Let’s just hope we can have a repeat performance!
I hope you all have a fun Friday and wonderful weekend. Here’s a little music and bonus VERY NSFW picture of Alec and me to get you off on the right foot. Cheers!
*I suppose instead of squirting it’s possible that I peed. But that’s not as sexy as squirting so I’ll just tell myself (and you) that didn’t happen.
Posted in humor, toys | October 13th, 2008 by Coy Pink
I’ve always been slightly annoyed about a certain segment of sex toys out there. Animal-themed sex toys, to be precise. What genius decided that women need or want their sex toys to be modeled after animals? Do the powers-that-be think if a sex toy is shaped like a bunny or a dolphin it will be more appealing to women? Do they think it’s easier for a shy lady to purchase a dildo with a face on it rather than one that is more life-like? Even if that is true, how insulting is that? All of us silly, giggling girls couldn’t POSSIBLY purchase a realistic looking vibrator, NOOOO… it must be cute looking! </sarcasm> I, for one, am not a fan of any toy that resembles an animal. Apparently, I’m not alone…
Lilly (of This Could Be Dangerous…) and I were discussing this very topic the other day. Please do enjoy a glimpse of our conversation:
coy_pink: WHY do sex toys for women have to be modeled after animals??
Dangerous_Lilly : lol, it bothers me too
coy_pink: What asshole thought that was a good idea in the first place?
Dangerous_Lilly: is there a reason the shape of a butterfly is a superior handsfree toy?
coy_pink: “Ooo, let’s make it like a cuddly animal and then women won’t feel dirty buying it!”
coy_pink: I just wouldn’t be able to get over rubbing an animal on my girlie parts.
Dangerous_Lilly: or that it looks like a toy your kids might own
coy_pink: Or my girls would somehow find it and want to play with it.
Dangerous_Lilly: ok, fine, if they find it it’s less humiliating…or if others find it. but STILL, how can you then take it away from your kids and say “no, that’s mommy’s wormy toy”
coy_pink: Daughter #1 found my rabbit vibrator a couple of years ago (before I got a good hiding place). I told her it was a back massager.
coy_pink: rofl
Dangerous_Lilly: lol
Dangerous_Lilly: The whole rabbit vibrator thing irks me too, but for different reasons i guess
Dangerous_Lilly: the rabbit-styles that i’ve liked….do NOT have bunny ears
Dangerous_Lilly: cause ya know what? I’m a big girl now and I don’t enjoy the fluttery irritating almost-nothingness of goddamn ears that are an inch away from the bullet
coy_pink: We bought an ivibe (i think) with the butterfly (instead of rabbit) on it, at the recommendation of the girl at the toy store.
Dangerous_Lilly: I mean really now….if having a vibrator that looks like a beaver (cliche) or a bunny or a fish what have you, if that makes you feel better about using a sex toy….then I think you need to up your sex-positive quotient or something. It’s like they’re catering to the women who are so immature and repressed that they think masturbation is dirty, and this is a way to cutesy it up.
Dangerous_Lilly: gah!!
Dangerous_Lilly: that looks like my cats catnip toy!!!!
coy_pink: Yes!
Dangerous_Lilly: I am not playing a part in the porno version of Alice in Wonderland, thankyouverymuch
Dangerous_Lilly: Crabs in your cooter? No thanks, we’d like to avoid that
coy_pink: WTF is that thing??
Dangerous_Lilly: its Craby
Dangerous_Lilly: it attaches “ever so gently” to your outer labia
Dangerous_Lilly: for hands free
Dangerous_Lilly: and looks like a crab
A huge thanks to Lilly for a fun chat that had me literally laughing out loud. It’s good to know that I’m not the only girl that’s a bit freaked out by animal-themed sex toys.
Come on, girls! There have got to be better toys out there for us to be spending our money on. Take for instance the Lelo line of toys or “pleasure objects”, as the company likes to refer to their products. Yes, they’re more expensive than the Vibro Dolphin Massager but don’t we already know that we get what we pay for? Or what about something from Vibereview.com or Babeland.com? Yes, they do carry some animal shaped toys but there are plenty of other things to choose from that won’t make you feel like you’re at the zoo when you look in your toy box. Let’s send the toy companies a message: we don’t need it to be cute for us to want to buy it. It doesn’t need to remind us of our favorite pet to be appealing. We’re talking about SEX TOYS here! I need my toys to penetrate, vibrate, excite, and pleasure me. I don’t need to find them adorable.
Posted in sex, submissive | October 12th, 2008 by Coy Pink
This week while on vacation, Alec told me I was going to go into the hall of our hotel, almost completely naked, for pictures. I thought he’d surely lost his mind. I thought perhaps he was joking; he loves to tease me. But, no, he was serious. I balked, told him he was insane, but he persisted. Alec is not one to push me to do things I don’t want to do so his insistence caught me a little off guard. Most of me wanted to say, “heck no!” but the other part of me wanted to comply with his command. I think I felt that if I completely defied him and said ”no way!” to going in the hall half-dressed, he might not be too keen on playing the dominant/submissive game with me in the future. {I know for many people, D/s is a lifestyle. We simply use D/s play to enhance our sex life.}
This situation got me thinking: can I categorize myself as submissive when what I really want is to just submit to things that sound like fun to me? I love it when Alec orders me around but I certainly enjoy it more when he instructs me to do something I find pleasurable. I certainly was not pleased (though I was a bit amused) to be ordered to have my picture taken, half naked, in the hall of our hotel. Maybe I’m really just a masochist with submissive tendencies. I do love to be spanked, paddled, flogged, pinched, bitten, et cetera. But I do not relish the idea of Alec ordering me to do things I might find humiliating or embarrassing. Perhaps that is just the petulant child in me, flexing her will. I want what I want as long as it serves me. I’ll even do what you tell me to do as long as I feel like doing it. But I want to retain the right to say no. I want to be bossed around just as long as I still have complete veto power.
Then that leads into a whole other line of thinking. Don’t people who act or behave as subs still possess the right to say no (whether by defiance or with a safe word)? Perhaps saying no will garner them a punishment but isn’t that part of the fun? And what about trust? Shouldn’t a submissive person completely trust their dominant partner to have their best interests at heart? I do trust Alec to have my best interests at heart. So why do I find the idea of giving all control over to him a bit unsettling? I think it might have something to do with how we use dominance and submission in our sex play. We slip into these rolls as others might slip into a costume. We try them on, have fun being in them for a while, but ultimately we go back to being ourselves, back to being equals. Because it is not in our true nature for me to be submissive or Alec to be dominant, I think I find it more difficult to submit to him when he is suggesting I do something outside my comfort zone. It is possible that in time we will both be more at ease trying out these new rolls and I will more readily accept orders from Alec that are not of my choosing.
It is interesting to me how introducing new elements to our sex play has me examining our everyday roles and how we relate to each other. I’ve found myself surprised at my reactions to certain experiences and thoroughly enjoying our experimentation. I also think that it doesn’t matter what I categorize myself as just so long as we’re both having fun. I can be a selective submissive with masochistic tendencies who also likes to switch into a more dominant role every so often. After all, why should I limit myself?
