Porn for a girl like me
I’ll start off by saying I’m not a huge fan of porn. If all porn were to disappear from the face of the earth tomorrow (perish the thought!), I wouldn’t shed a tear. Much of the commercially-produced porn is so ridiculous, I can’t get into it. The beautiful girls make me self conscious. Many of the men are downright creepy looking. And some of the sex acts (pussy slapping? really?) leave me scratching my head. But I’ll also admit that there have been times that a sexy video here and there has spiced things up for Hub and me. So it can’t be all bad, right?
I’ve narrowed down my tastes enough to be able to say that the kind of porn I like features REAL people. I would much rather watch a mildly attractive real couple having unscripted sex than a perfect 10 man and woman (or two women) acting out scenes. For me, genuine enjoyment is much more exciting than fantasy sex. Maybe it’s the voyeur in me that enjoys watching the real people, as if I’m peeking in on their secret, sexy action. Whatever the reason, to me, real people equals real hot.
Next on my list of Coy Approved Porn would be videos featuring girl-on-girl action. If those girls happen to not look like the typical porn star (as per my first preference – real people), all the better! But being that I’m not that in to porn, where do I look to find something that fits the bill? Amazing husband to the rescue! If girl-on-girl videos are what his wife wants, girl-on-girl videos are what his wife gets. Hub’s searching, with my criteria in mind, led him to Abby Winters. These videos are unscripted sex with pretty but normal looking girls. Jackpot! Not long after his discovery, low and behold, The Girl Sessions DVD arrives at my door. What a sneaky guy he is. Though I haven’t watched the entire video, I would highly recommend it.
I believe the only remaining category of porn I’d spend my time watching would include: sex acts I’d like to recreate. I’m just starting to delve into this area and I think it would be fun to start compiling a “to do” list of favorites. I must get going with my research! I’m sure my faithful assistant will have no problem helping me with my investigation. I posted one favorite the other day in my ’Bits and pieces‘ entry. The scene involves a very happy looking woman giving a blowjob/handjob to a man that results in cum all over her breasts. That one should be easy enough to tick off the “to do” list, shouldn’t it? It also leaves me wondering why haven’t we already done this? Apparently I’ve been living under a rock where I was unaware of how hot I think cum on tits is.
When it comes to porn, I am a woman of simple tastes: give me real people, give me girl/girl action, give me actual couples engaging in play I want to recreate with my husband (or another girl). As Hub and I pick our way through the internet, combing through the vast quantities of sex videos out there, we’ll be sure to share our favorite finds with you. And if you should have a video that fits my requirements, please send us the link. After all, it’s only polite to share!
For all the images that I’ve been using in UR, I definitely agree with you. I’m actually very selective with the images I use on the blog, trying to incorporate some element of an image to something relevant to the post, but even then I often find myself using snippets from “professional” shots.
But that aside, and for my own pleasure, we see eye to eye. I enjoy seeing real passion, real envelope-pushing, real abandon, and even real love in sensual images. I also find Winters’ work, and that of many other female artists, easily out-do what the men in Los Angeles come up with.
Generally I tend to agree with you. Given that I’ve never been small re: my figure, when you see these (over) toned, (over) trim and (over) terrific bodies on screen having this wonderful (wild, fantasy) sex…it really does make ya feel a little self-conscious. So generally speaking, give me the voyeuristic real sex between real people (with some emotion behind the action, not just cash) and I’m a happy woman.
On the other hand, sometimes it’s nice for something different to watch the staged ‘pro’ porn. Like “Pirates”. Oh damn, that’s a good porno. If you haven’t seen it, it’s DEFINITELY worth the money. And watch out for the one-liner from the guy in the scene with the skeletons (Classic!).
So Coy, not a link, but a recommendation, is that ok?
I agree, I posted about this long ago. I don’t at all like scripted porn – it’s silly, it’s fake, it’s…pointless. I want to see the flush a woman gets at orgasm, the glow in her cheeks, the red spots going over her face and chest.
My favorite, although hard to find, is voyeur in which it really seems like and usually is the case, that the people fucking don’t realize they’re being filmed. You are different on camera when you know you’re being filmed, amateur or not.
Yeah…..I have too much porn. Too many Abby Winters vids downloaded, lol. I have 40 gigs on my computer *hangs head*
I have to agree with you overall. I don’t find much girl on girl that is not “fake” all around.
I used to find the idea of cum disgusting, even though I’ve been with dh 14+ years, and then in the past year it has grown on me more and more. Dh only has interest in putting it one place though and feels an orgasim would be wasted otherwise. So I think he’s only cum on me a handful of times.
As far as finding porn goes I used to rely on him to download it for me. We really aren’t downloading it anymore, I just go watch it at cliphunter.com You can then use keywords to try and find what you want.