Comments on: Kiss and Tell http://www.coypink.com/2008/08/01/kiss-and-tell/ By Coy Pink Thu, 09 Sep 2010 04:41:26 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Coy Pink http://www.coypink.com/2008/08/01/kiss-and-tell/comment-page-1/#comment-1963 Coy Pink Sun, 30 Aug 2009 17:15:27 +0000 http://www.coypink.com/?p=30#comment-1963 Mike - It's funny that you should comment on this post when I was just discussing this issue with my husband last night. I just don't think I'm "built" for no-strings-attached, casual sex (unless maybe I was pretty drunk). The emotional connection I have with someone enhances the sexual interaction I have with them. Another factor that holds me back from having sex with a paid sex worker is the issue of *her* enjoyment. Whether she was enjoying the encounter with me or not would almost be irrelevant because in the back of my mind I would always be thinking, "She's faking it. What if she doesn't want to be here?" I know myself well enough to be certain that this kind of thinking would lessen the pleasure and fun I would have. Ridiculous? Maybe. Could I get over these hurdles in time? Perhaps. If I decide to venture into this territory, you can be sure I'll post an update on the blog. Mike – It’s funny that you should comment on this post when I was just discussing this issue with my husband last night. I just don’t think I’m “built” for no-strings-attached, casual sex (unless maybe I was pretty drunk). The emotional connection I have with someone enhances the sexual interaction I have with them. Another factor that holds me back from having sex with a paid sex worker is the issue of *her* enjoyment. Whether she was enjoying the encounter with me or not would almost be irrelevant because in the back of my mind I would always be thinking, “She’s faking it. What if she doesn’t want to be here?” I know myself well enough to be certain that this kind of thinking would lessen the pleasure and fun I would have.

Ridiculous? Maybe. Could I get over these hurdles in time? Perhaps. If I decide to venture into this territory, you can be sure I’ll post an update on the blog.

]]> By: Mike http://www.coypink.com/2008/08/01/kiss-and-tell/comment-page-1/#comment-1962 Mike Sun, 30 Aug 2009 14:48:41 +0000 http://www.coypink.com/?p=30#comment-1962 You know there is another section on CL called Adult Services...why not get an escort that works with couples?? By dating you are putting yourself out there emotionally. For a few hundred you can keep the messy emotional part in a nice little box and explore whether the physical part is worth all the effort or just a great fantasy. As Charlie Sheen famously said. "I don't pay them for sex, I pay them to go away." You know there is another section on CL called Adult Services…why not get an escort that works with couples??

By dating you are putting yourself out there emotionally. For a few hundred you can keep the messy emotional part in a nice little box and explore whether the physical part is worth all the effort or just a great fantasy.

As Charlie Sheen famously said. “I don’t pay them for sex, I pay them to go away.”

]]> By: Melissa http://www.coypink.com/2008/08/01/kiss-and-tell/comment-page-1/#comment-1266 Melissa Sat, 21 Mar 2009 20:45:37 +0000 http://www.coypink.com/?p=30#comment-1266 I think in many ways I'm in the same situation you are...I've been craigslist looking for a female encounter, and didn't really find one to pique my interest. I've contemplated placing my own ad, but have hesitated, because once I do that I'm putting myself out there, and afraid that I'd end up with the same issue you have of not being able to turn off your heart and my head. I'm wondering if its best to just keep it as a fantasy myself...No clue, but know you aren't alone! :) I think in many ways I’m in the same situation you are…I’ve been craigslist looking for a female encounter, and didn’t really find one to pique my interest. I’ve contemplated placing my own ad, but have hesitated, because once I do that I’m putting myself out there, and afraid that I’d end up with the same issue you have of not being able to turn off your heart and my head. I’m wondering if its best to just keep it as a fantasy myself…No clue, but know you aren’t alone! :)

]]> By: breve http://www.coypink.com/2008/08/01/kiss-and-tell/comment-page-1/#comment-294 breve Wed, 10 Sep 2008 05:26:09 +0000 http://www.coypink.com/?p=30#comment-294 I so appreciated your candidness and sharing your story. I have been contemplating the same thing myself. I vacillate between seeking and just letting the experience happen naturally....I thought you were bold and honest...great combo I so appreciated your candidness and sharing your story. I have been contemplating the same thing myself. I vacillate between seeking and just letting the experience happen naturally….I thought you were bold and honest…great combo

]]> By: Rogue http://www.coypink.com/2008/08/01/kiss-and-tell/comment-page-1/#comment-36 Rogue Tue, 05 Aug 2008 00:28:32 +0000 http://www.coypink.com/?p=30#comment-36 I am not at all surprised that she has rewarded your honesty. Now, the question is: what are you going to do for (to?) her to show your appreciation? I am not at all surprised that she has rewarded your honesty. Now, the question is: what are you going to do for (to?) her to show your appreciation?

]]> By: blueridgemariposa http://www.coypink.com/2008/08/01/kiss-and-tell/comment-page-1/#comment-30 blueridgemariposa Sun, 03 Aug 2008 00:34:47 +0000 http://www.coypink.com/?p=30#comment-30 Honest and real. I wonder how tonight's adventures go at the strip club? Honest and real.

I wonder how tonight’s adventures go at the strip club?

]]> By: coy pink http://www.coypink.com/2008/08/01/kiss-and-tell/comment-page-1/#comment-27 coy pink Sat, 02 Aug 2008 17:52:55 +0000 http://www.coypink.com/?p=30#comment-27 Tori, I am enjoying our banter more than you can know. You put a smile on my face. I will be posting about my fantasy encounter. Probably this week. Get that pen and paper ready! Yes, Hub wants to be my personal cheering squad when I'm with a girl. We're going to the strip club tonight so he'll be getting some practice with that. ;-) Tori, I am enjoying our banter more than you can know. You put a smile on my face.

I will be posting about my fantasy encounter. Probably this week. Get that pen and paper ready!

Yes, Hub wants to be my personal cheering squad when I’m with a girl. We’re going to the strip club tonight so he’ll be getting some practice with that. ;-)

]]> By: Tori http://www.coypink.com/2008/08/01/kiss-and-tell/comment-page-1/#comment-26 Tori Sat, 02 Aug 2008 17:25:52 +0000 http://www.coypink.com/?p=30#comment-26 My computer froze in the middle of submitting this comment. Sorry if it shows up twice! I, for one, am super curious to hear how you'd like things to go for your next encounter with a woman. . . excuse me while I just go get a scrap of paper to take notes on! And, Rogue's right. . . you were really brave. Maybe if the hubby was with you through it all, you'd feel better about it. . . he could be your personal cheering squad! And, I kept humming that tune "I kissed a girl" while reading this post. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gryUQvkrSso&feature=related) gotta figure out and then remember how to embed links in comments. Enough out of me already! My computer froze in the middle of submitting this comment. Sorry if it shows up twice!

I, for one, am super curious to hear how you’d like things to go for your next encounter with a woman. . . excuse me while I just go get a scrap of paper to take notes on!

And, Rogue’s right. . . you were really brave. Maybe if the hubby was with you through it all, you’d feel better about it. . . he could be your personal cheering squad!

And, I kept humming that tune “I kissed a girl” while reading this post. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gryUQvkrSso&feature=related) gotta figure out and then remember how to embed links in comments.
Enough out of me already!

]]> By: coy pink http://www.coypink.com/2008/08/01/kiss-and-tell/comment-page-1/#comment-25 coy pink Sat, 02 Aug 2008 17:21:52 +0000 http://www.coypink.com/?p=30#comment-25 Thanks, Rogue. Being honest is hard but I just can't lie. Telling her the truth felt better than making something up or just blowing her off. And apparently my honesty was rewarded because she's still speaking to me. Thanks, Rogue. Being honest is hard but I just can’t lie. Telling her the truth felt better than making something up or just blowing her off. And apparently my honesty was rewarded because she’s still speaking to me.

]]> By: Rogue http://www.coypink.com/2008/08/01/kiss-and-tell/comment-page-1/#comment-24 Rogue Sat, 02 Aug 2008 16:59:35 +0000 http://www.coypink.com/?p=30#comment-24 An ass? I think you were brave. You wrote the ad and you were yourself. You had the courage to go and meet her, and you had a fun time. You kissed her, and she liked your kiss. You had overcome so many things by then already. And she's stayed in touch with you. Who knows? Maybe it's the beginning of something that can yet be nurtured. Even if not, you still did something that scared you and lived to, literally, tell the tale. I think you're being rough on yourself. You're brave. An ass? I think you were brave. You wrote the ad and you were yourself. You had the courage to go and meet her, and you had a fun time. You kissed her, and she liked your kiss. You had overcome so many things by then already.

And she’s stayed in touch with you. Who knows? Maybe it’s the beginning of something that can yet be nurtured. Even if not, you still did something that scared you and lived to, literally, tell the tale.

I think you’re being rough on yourself. You’re brave.

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