Sugasm #142

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #143? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Interludes – part 3
“He winds the rope around his hands, smoothing the kinks, and I stand there, breathing a little faster, conscious of all those eyes upon me.”

Hurts So Good
“I want you to wear the badges of sweet distress for days.”

Shower fantasy
“You don’t want to admit it, but you want me.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Why I haven’t blogged about the Mosley case

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

BDSM & Fetish
A bit of roleplay …
Bound, Pinched and Spanked
Club Visit, Part 1
The Coolest Bondage Fetish Edgeplay Picture Ever Taken
24/7 – Día Internacional del BDSM
Discoveries of the Domina
First Encounter: an unlikely meeting
Girls Boarding School updates. Hard Punishment
The Hottest Gas Mask Fetish Erotica I’ve Ever Read By Tina Peitsche
Leather Retreat 2008 – My Dolly
Masochism
Mr. Kink Plays With Thursday’s Child
My inner pain slut makes an appearance
Play time at Jules & Malycia’s
The Seduction of Daddy’s baby
Spanking Galleries: Punishment for pretty girl

Sex Work
A Stellar First Call

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Housewife on the Loose
Mz Berlin Is SICK! Unfair. New Fetish Movie With Jewell Marceau In My Clips Store
Nexus Vibro Review For Babeland
Ron Jeremy Reviews: The Max Hardcore Verdict
The World Erotic Art Museum (WEAM) and Lochai

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Carmine
Catalina loves Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes
Club Tantra: My Experience, Unabridged 3
Fiction: The Hotel, Part 2
Fiction: The Jet Setter, Part III of III
Getting to fuck the neighbor 18
Hunger
I Have a Crush
I worship your cock
A long wait
A Lovely Sexual Fantasy From A Very Special Friend
No reservations, part 5
Out of the woods – part III
The Point of Exhaustion
Popping My Cherry
Quiet as Kept
Receptacle For Your Love…
Video: Seducing a Girl (Complete)
Welcome Home

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Anna, Evi & Jula (Hegre-Art)
Brittany Fuchs
Cam2sex submits another free blowjob movie
CamWithHer blondie Elise shows round ass
Nude II
Showin’ a little ass -HNT

Sex Advice
Advice for Women on a Wife Led Marriage
Ask Miss Bliss-She leaves me tongue-tied
Going Green While Getting Down
How to have sex in a car

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Faking it
Fine Line Between Art and Porn Finer Than Ever
Half-Nekkid and Turning 40
It’s Good To Be Catalina
Love & Sex = Chemical?
Revelation
Still haven’t found what I’m looking for
“Stripper” or “Exotic Dancer?”
Why the deaf are probably great lovers

Sex Humor
How About Doing Something with that Unsightly Vagina of Yours
If Loving This Video Is Wrong, We Don’t Want to Be Right
My First Time (with a Home Pregnancy Test)

No need to be coy

When it comes to things related to sex, I’ve always had this bit of shyness that overtakes me.  I don’t know why, I don’t know where it comes from.  I’ve felt embarrassed to say what I want, what I feel, what I like.  Why?  I’ve been with my husband for almost 15 years now.  We’ve had sex countless times, he’s seen me at my worst and at my best.  Why has it been so hard for me to come out and tell him my inner most thoughts with regards to sex?  If ever there was a person to trust with the dark, sexy thoughts in my head, it’s him.  What is holding me back?

I’m getting better at sharing, that’s for sure.  I’m starting to believe that all the talk about women reaching their sexual peak in their thirties is true.  I’m becoming more confident, less apt to care about what others think of me.  I wouldn’t say I’m 100% happy with my body but I can appreciate my good features.  I’ve grown up, given birth, and my attitudes are changing.  I’m starting to see that there’s no sense in being coy when it comes to my sexual desires.  If I never tell my husband what pleases me, what I want, what I need, how do I expect him to know these things?  Oh, he is skilled at figuring out on his own what I like most of the time.  Fingers here make her squirm, kisses here make her shiver.  But if I never say out loud what is brewing in my mind, all the steamy thoughts I have about spankings and women and dominance, I have no one to blame but myself for not having those needs and desires fulfilled.

So I am now taking the lion’s share of the responsiblity for my sexual satisfaction into my own hands, in a manner of speaking.  If I want it, I need to say it.  If I desire it, I have to let it be known.  I will no longer be embarassed about sex and its trapings.  It serves no purpose.  I want to explore my sexuality with abandon.  What better place than the wide open, anonymous internet for me to write about all the lovely, dirty little things I have spinning around in my head.

First post, first HNT!

Welcome to my new blog!  I’m going to be furiously adding more content, tweaking the design, and hopefully working to make this a place you’ll visit again.  In the mean time, happy Half-Nekkid Thursday!